What's got my attention this week

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Things to read, watch and listen to this bank holiday weekend

Oprah Winfrey and Drew Barrymore talk menopause on Oprah Daily

Oprah has entered the building! Finally, menopause goes mainstream stateside.

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• Oprah Winfrey and Drew Barrymore (above) discuss menopause (Si apre in una nuova finestra). If you feel like watching the whole conversation, you'll find it on Oprah Daily. (Si apre in una nuova finestra)
• If it's advertised to you online, you probably shouldn't buy it (Si apre in una nuova finestra)...
• Is female political representation (Si apre in una nuova finestra) going backwards? In a week when Jacinda Ardern gave a stellar resignation speech (Si apre in una nuova finestra) and Sanna Marin's party lost control of Finland, it certainly felt like it.
• On the other hand, Carol Vorderman (Si apre in una nuova finestra) has taken a note out of the Gary Lineker playbook.
• If this is what 80 looks like, sign me up! (Si apre in una nuova finestra)

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(A note about the links: some links are behind a paywall, but almost all can be accessed free by registering your email address. The only publications this doesn't apply to are The Times, Telegraph and FT. These are marked £. However, the Telegraph almost always has a month's free trial going, and I use the FT Edit app (Si apre in una nuova finestra), which is free for the first 30 days and gives you access to 8 articles.)

READING

the UK cover of Romantic Comedy by Curtis Sittenfeld

You know by now that I'm a Curtis Sittenfeld superfan so there was a lot of pressure on Romantic Comedy to deliver the goods! Happily it more than does. Sally Milz is a writer at a show not a million miles from Saturday Night Live and she can't help noticing that the funny-but-average male writers have a distinct habit of bagging gorgeous high-achieving women. Strangely, not so the female writers! Enter unexpectedly decent, decidedly hot, rockstar Noah. Funny, clever, warm, this is uplifting balm for the soul. And if you haven't read anything by Curtis yet, Romantic Comedy (Si apre in una nuova finestra) is a great place to start, but so, too, is American Wife (Si apre in una nuova finestra), her transatlantic bestseller about the wife of a US president 99.9% definitely based on Laura Bush. (Also look out for Curtis on next week's episode of The Shift podcast.)
• You'll find lots of other great reads to look forward to this Spring in this week's newsletter (Si apre in una nuova finestra).

WATCHING

left to right: Ria Zmitrowicz Toni Collette Halle Bush in The Power by Naomi Alderman on Amazon Prime

The Power, amazon Prime
I've been a massive fan of The Power, the book by Naomi Alderman (Si apre in una nuova finestra), since I judged the Women's Prize for Fiction the year it won, which was 2017, so I feel like I've been waiting for this TV adaptation for the longest time. I'm only two episodes in but, so far, teenage girls all over the world have discovered the power to create electricity, usually triggered in variously traumatic circumstances. It's no small leap from there to using this newfound 'talent' and from there, to using it to take power from the men who have been running the show. Like I said, it's over five years since this book was published and the TV adaptation doesn't feel quite so air-punchingly radical, but it's still gripping and thought provoking, so far. And Toni Collette, as Margo, the mayor of Seattle, is, as ever, the don.

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Also catching up with:
• Daisy Jones & The Six (amazon Prime). I wanted to hate it. Really I did. But it's totally addictive. I can certainly think of far worse ways to lose a bank holiday Monday. Plus Daisy's wardrobe! Plus plus Billy's cheekbones!
• Magpie Murders (BBCiplayer or Saturday nights, weirdly). Cosy crime doesn't come any cosier than this. Lesley Manville is a book editor who turns sleuth when her bestselling (and obnoxious) author dies mysteriously.
• Rain Dogs (BBCiplayer or Tuesday nights). Not at all cosy. Daisy May Cooper is brilliantly challenging in Cash Carraway's pitch black comedy about homelessness, poverty, sex, class... you name it.

LISTENING
• A Very British Cult is the eight-part investigation into Lighthouse, released to much fanfare this week. Reporter Catrin Nye spent 18 months looking into the work and workings of the organisation that calls itself life coaching but looks a lot more like a cross between a cult and a pyramid scheme. Her conversations with previous members and their families and the sinister way Lighthouse fights back are totally gripping. (You can find it here (Si apre in una nuova finestra) or on BBC Sounds.)

And on The Shift podcast this week...
...Sarah Knight, the creator of the No Fucks Given franchise, was way too big a gift not to invite on the podcast! But what was most fascinating was, in fact, the things she did GAF about and how she judges what's worthy. (Come here to learn how best to spend your "fuck bucks"!) We also discussed how to "grow the fuck up", why selfish isn't a four letter word and how to give yourself permission to make a change.

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Data 07/04/2023

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